本文75則情感格言,幫助你正確地處理感情事物,促進(jìn)你的情感關(guān)系朝著積極的方向發(fā)展。
1. In life you’ll realize there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you, and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
生活中,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)每個(gè)所遇到的人,都有其意義所在。有的人會(huì)考驗(yàn)?zāi),有的人?huì)利用你,有的人會(huì)指導(dǎo)你。而有的人會(huì)激發(fā)出最優(yōu)秀的你,這才是最重要的。
2. Keep people in your life who truly love you, motivate you, encourage you, enhance you, and make you happy. If you know people who do none of these things, let them go.
珍惜那些真正愛(ài)自己,促進(jìn)自己,鼓勵(lì)自己,提高自己和讓自己快樂(lè)的人。放手那些不能帶給自己這些的人。
3. Love is not about sex, going on fancy dates, or showing off. It’s about being with a person who makes you happy in a way nobody else can.
愛(ài)情不是性關(guān)系,不是浪漫的約會(huì),也不是虛榮心的炫耀;而是和一個(gè)能讓自己快樂(lè)的人在一起。
4. Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring – all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
我們常常低估了一次撫摸的力量,一個(gè)微笑的魅力,一句親切的話語(yǔ),一顆傾聽(tīng)的心,一個(gè)誠(chéng)實(shí)的贊美,或是最細(xì)微的關(guān)懷——而所有這些,都有可能改變我們的生活。
5. The most beautiful thing is to see a person you love smiling. And even more beautiful is knowing that you are the reason behind it.
最美好的事情就是你看著他/她,臉上充滿(mǎn)的笑意;更為美妙的是,你知道這是為什么。
6. Choose your relationships wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.
謹(jǐn)慎的選擇一段感情,寧缺毋濫。
7. Being alone does not mean you are lonely, and being lonely does not mean you are alone.
孤單不代表寂寞,寂寞不需要孤單。
8. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
愛(ài)上一個(gè)人是在自己合適的時(shí)候,而不是在自己寂寞的時(shí)候。
9. Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to.
愛(ài)意味著給別人傷害自己的機(jī)會(huì),但要相信自己不會(huì)被傷害。
10. You know you’ve found true love when you catch yourself falling in love with the same person over and over again.
當(dāng)你發(fā)現(xiàn)自己一次次愛(ài)上同一個(gè)人的時(shí)候,你已經(jīng)找到了自己的真愛(ài)。
11. Don’t wait for the right person to come into your life. Rather, be the right person to come to someone’s life.
不要等著合適的人走進(jìn)自己的生活,而是要成為那個(gè)合適的人走進(jìn)他/她的生活。
12. The one who is meant for you encourages you to be your best, but still loves and accepts you at your worst.
注定的愛(ài)情,不僅鼓勵(lì)你成為最棒的自己,同時(shí)在你最困難的時(shí)候,仍然愛(ài)著你,接受你,在你身邊不離不棄。
13. Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.
永遠(yuǎn)不要把一個(gè)人看成自己一切,而讓自己成為他/她可有可無(wú)的備胎。
14. Some relationships are like glass. It’s better to leave it broken, than to hurt yourself more by trying to put it back together.
有些感情就像玻璃鏡子一樣,碎了就碎了,不要為了破鏡重圓再次傷害自己。
15. Just because one person doesn’t seem to care for you, doesn’t mean you should forget about everyone else who does.
不要僅僅因?yàn)橐粋(gè)不在乎你的人而忽略所有在乎你的人。
16. Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right.
你的正確并不一定意味著別人的錯(cuò)誤。
17. It is okay to be angry. It is never okay to be cruel.
生氣是正常的,但使人痛苦是不對(duì)的。
18. Never do something permanently foolish just because you are temporarily upset.
不要因?yàn)橐粫r(shí)的傷心而做出永遠(yuǎn)后悔的傻事兒。
19. Silence is often the loudest cry. Pay attention to those you care about.
沉默是最有力的哭泣,要多關(guān)心自己在乎的人。
20. We don’t always need advice. Sometimes all we need is a hand to hold, an ear to listen, and a heart to understand.
我們并不總是需要建議。有時(shí)只需要一只緊握的手,一個(gè)傾聽(tīng)的耳朵,一顆理解的心。
21. It’s not so much what you say that counts, it’ how you make people feel.
你說(shuō)什么并不重要,重要的是給人的感覺(jué)。
22. A silent hug means a thousand words to the unhappy heart.
傷心難過(guò)的時(shí)候,一個(gè)默默的擁抱勝過(guò)前言萬(wàn)語(yǔ)。
23. Don’t mess with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of yours.
不要因?yàn)樽约旱呐腔捕萑敫星殇鰷u。
24. True happiness comes from within, not from someone else. Don’t make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy.
真正的快樂(lè)是來(lái)自?xún)?nèi)心的,不是別人帶給的。不要錯(cuò)誤地認(rèn)為等待一個(gè)人或一件事的出現(xiàn)會(huì)讓自己快樂(lè)。
25. Don’t choose the one who is beautiful to the world, choose the one who makes your world beautiful.
不要選擇這個(gè)世界認(rèn)為美好的事或人,而要選擇讓自己成為這個(gè)世界美好的那個(gè)事或人。
26. If you feel like your ship is sinking, it might be a good time to throw out the stuff that’s been weighing it down. Let go of people who bring you down, and surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you.
當(dāng)你感到自己的船在下沉的時(shí)候,最好扔掉船上承重的東西。放開(kāi)讓你傷心的那些人,擁抱發(fā)掘你美的那些人。
27. Just because it didn’t last forever, doesn’t mean it wasn’t worth your while.
不要因?yàn)橐欢吻椴荒荛L(zhǎng)久,就意味著不值得擁有。
28. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Don’t expect others to read your mind, and don’t play games with their heads and hearts. Don’t tell half-truths and expect people to trust you when the full truth comes out. Half-truths are no better than lies. And don’t ignore someone you care about, because lack of concern hurts more than angry words.
說(shuō)你所想,表里如一。不要指望別人來(lái)讀懂你的心思,也不要玩弄猜心游戲。不要講半真半假的謊話,真相大白時(shí)還指望別人相信你。因?yàn)榘胝姘爰俚闹e話也是謊話。不要忽略自己在乎的人,因?yàn)槿狈﹃P(guān)心和氣話一樣傷人。
29. Lies help no one in the long run. So… 1) Don’t say “I love you” if you don’t mean it. 2) Don’t say “I understand” if you have no clue. 3) Don’t say “I’m sorry” if you’re not. 4) Be honest with yourself and your loved ones.
謊言長(zhǎng)久不宜,因此:1)如果你不是真心,不要說(shuō)“我愛(ài)你”。2)如果你毫不知情,不要說(shuō)“我理解”。3)如果你沒(méi)有歉意,不要說(shuō)“對(duì)不起”。4)真誠(chéng)地對(duì)待自己和自己所愛(ài)的人。
30. Tell the truth, or eventually someone will tell it for you.
不要撒謊,否則總有一天有人會(huì)揭露真相。
31. Good relationships don’t just happen; they take time, patience and two people who truly want to work to be together.
幸福的感情不是自然而然的,而是要花時(shí)間和耐心,兩個(gè)人真心努力在一起所有的。
32. Falling in love is not a choice. To stay in love is.
戀愛(ài)不需要選擇,守住愛(ài)情才需要。
33. Love doesn’t hurt. Lying, cheating and screwing with people’s feelings and emotions hurts.
愛(ài)情本不傷人。傷人的是感情的欺騙和背叛。
34. When it comes to relationships, remaining faithful is never an option but a priority. Loyalty is everything.
對(duì)于感情,保持忠貞不是可有可無(wú),而是必須的。忠貞是愛(ài)情的一切。
35. A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences.
幸福的愛(ài)情兩要素:第一,欣賞彼此相似之處;第二,尊重對(duì)方不同之處。
36. Jealousy is the art of counting someone else blessings instead of your own. Don’t waste your time on jealousy. The only person you’re competing against is yourself.
嫉妒是拋開(kāi)自己的幸運(yùn),而只計(jì)數(shù)他人幸運(yùn)的藝術(shù)。不要把自己的時(shí)間浪費(fèi)在嫉妒上,我們自己才是自己唯一的勁敵。
37. Do not become possessive. The purpose of a relationship is to complement each other, grow together, and achieve your common goals as a couple. At the same time, you must each maintain your individual identity as a human being.
愛(ài)情的意義不是占有,而是為了相得益彰,共同成長(zhǎng),一起實(shí)現(xiàn)共同目標(biāo)結(jié)為連理;同時(shí),在感情中雙方保持自我。
38. Don’t ever change just to impress someone. Change because it makes you a better person and leads you to a better future.
改變自己,讓自己更優(yōu)秀,未來(lái)更美好。永遠(yuǎn)不要刻意為他人而改變自己。
39. Give, but don’t allow yourself to be used. Listen to others, but don’t lose your own voice.
付出而不被利用,傾聽(tīng)而不失自我的聲音。
40. Don’t look for someone who will solve all your problems; look forsomeone who will face them with you.
不要等待有人來(lái)解決你所有的問(wèn)題,要去尋找一個(gè)愿意和自己一起解決問(wèn)題的人。
41. You don’t really need someone to complete you. You only need someone to accept you completely.
你真的不需要一個(gè)人來(lái)完美自己,只需要一個(gè)人徹底地接納自己。
42. Speak when you are very angry, and you’ll make the best speech you’ll ever regret.
生氣時(shí)所言必將后悔。
43. Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Let it go.
放開(kāi)怨恨,怨恨是幸福的毒藥。
44. As we grow up, we realize it becomes less important to have more friends and more important to have real ones.
隨著年紀(jì)的增長(zhǎng),我們意識(shí)到,朋友的數(shù)量不再重要,重要的是朋友的質(zhì)量。
45. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
生病的時(shí)候,工作不會(huì)照顧你,但朋友會(huì)。請(qǐng)時(shí)常聯(lián)系你的朋友。
46. Respect is earned, honesty is appreciated, trust is gained, and loyalty is returned.
爭(zhēng)取的是尊重,欣賞的是誠(chéng)實(shí),贏得的是信任,回報(bào)的是忠心。
47. Never waste a moment, it may be the last with someone you love.
珍惜在一起的每分每秒,因?yàn),有可能這是最后一次和你愛(ài)的人在一起。
48. If you love someone, tell them. Forget about the rules or the fear of looking ridiculous. What is really ridiculous is passing up on an opportunity to tell someone that your heart is invested in them.
愛(ài)他/她,就告訴他/她。不要被規(guī)則束縛,不要害怕被笑。因?yàn)檎嬲眯Φ氖鞘ケ戆鬃约簝?nèi)心的機(jī)會(huì)。
49. Nobody gets through life without losing someone they love, someone they need, or something they thought was meant to be. But it is these losses that make us stronger and eventually move us toward future opportunities.
一個(gè)人的人生總是要失去所愛(ài)的人、所需的人、又或者理所當(dāng)然的事物。但正是因?yàn)檫@些失去,讓我們更加堅(jiān)強(qiáng),最終走向未來(lái)的成功。
50. Never stop doing little things for others. Sometimes those little things occupy the biggest part of their hearts.
堅(jiān)持從小事幫助他人,有時(shí),對(duì)需要的人而言,小幫助卻是大恩德。
51. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
人生最美好的時(shí)光就是和自己在乎的人一起度過(guò)的無(wú)數(shù)個(gè)歡樂(lè)的時(shí)刻。
52. A real person is not perfect, and a perfect person is not real.
現(xiàn)實(shí)中的人都不是完美的,完美的人不是真實(shí)存在的。
53. To the world, you might be just one person. But to one person, you might be the world.
對(duì)全世界而言,你只是一個(gè)個(gè)體;但對(duì)某個(gè)人而言,你卻是他/她的全部世界。
54. Just because you have a past with someone, doesn’t mean you should have a future with them.
你參與了他/她的過(guò)去,不代表你能擁有他/她的未來(lái)。
55. No relationship is a waste of time. The wrong ones teach you the lessons that prepare you for the right ones.
沒(méi)有一段感情是浪費(fèi)時(shí)間的,錯(cuò)誤的選擇是為對(duì)的感情做準(zhǔn)備。
56. The first to apologize is the bravest. The first to forgive is the strongest. The first to move forward is the happiest.
最先道歉的人是最勇敢的,最先原諒的人是最堅(jiān)持的,最先放手過(guò)去的人是最幸福的。
57. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
如果一段感情需要保密,你就不該卷進(jìn)去。
58. Characterize people by their actions and you will never be fooled by their words.
觀察一個(gè)人的行為,你永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)被其所言愚弄。
59. When the pain of holding on is worse than the pain of letting go, it is time to let go.
如果一段感情堅(jiān)持比放手更痛苦,那是時(shí)候該放手了。
60. If a friend is in trouble, don’t bother them by asking if there is anything you can do. Think of something appropriate and do it.
如果朋友陷入麻煩,不要去問(wèn)有什么可以做的,而是看看有什么你能夠幫忙的然后做就可以了。
61. Sometimes it is better to be kind than to be right. We do not always need an intelligent mind that speaks, just a patient heart that listens.
有時(shí),關(guān)心比正確更重要。我們不是總需要智慧的建議,而是一顆聆聽(tīng)的心。
62. Be the friend that you want to have.
想要什么樣的朋友,先成為這樣的朋友吧。
63. There are times when family are like strangers, and strangers are like family. Both sets of people are priceless.
有時(shí)家人就像陌生人,而陌生人卻像家人,但他們都是無(wú)價(jià)的,不可或缺。
64. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
與所愛(ài)的人發(fā)生分歧時(shí),只論眼前之事,不可再提陳年舊事。
65. Instead of judging people by their past, stand by them and help repair their future.
不要從一個(gè)人的過(guò)去來(lái)斷定一個(gè)人,而要支持他們,幫助他們整理未來(lái)。
66. Don’t try to be everything to everyone. Be everything to someone.
不要試圖成為每個(gè)人的一切,成為一個(gè)人的一切就夠了。
67. Let us remember that we can’t force anyone to love us. We can’t beg someone to stay when they want to leave and be with someone else. This is what love is all about. However, the end of love is not the end of life. It should be the beginning of understanding that love leaves for a reason, but never leaves without a lesson.
記住:我們不能強(qiáng)迫任何人愛(ài)我們。當(dāng)他們因?yàn)閯e人而要離開(kāi)時(shí),我們不能祈求他/她留下。這就是愛(ài)情。然而,愛(ài)情的結(jié)束并不意味著一個(gè)人人生的結(jié)束,而是明白愛(ài)情為什么離開(kāi)的開(kāi)始,一定要從中得到教訓(xùn)。
68. When things fall apart, consider the possibility that life knocked it down on purpose. Not to bully you, or to punish you, but to prompt you to build something that better suits your personality and your purpose. Sometimes things fall apart so better things can fall together.
當(dāng)事情失敗時(shí),也許是生活故意為之。不要自責(zé),也不要懲罰自己,而是要提醒自己建立更適合自己性格和目的的事情。有時(shí),事情的失敗是為了更好的事情的匯聚。
69. Everyone wants a perfect ending. But over the years I’ve learned that some of the best poems don’t rhyme, and many great stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle, or end. Life is about not knowing, embracing change, and taking a moment and making the best of it without knowing what’s going to happen next.
每個(gè)人生都想要一個(gè)完美結(jié)局。但這些年我發(fā)現(xiàn),最美的詩(shī)歌并不全都押韻,許多杰出的故事并不都有清楚的開(kāi)頭、高潮或結(jié)尾。生活是未知的,接受改變,活在當(dāng)下,演繹自我精彩;不需要知道下一刻將發(fā)生什么。
70. In human relationships, distance is not measured in miles but in affection. Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart. So stay in touch with those who truly matter to you. Not because it’s convenient, but because they’re worth the extra effort.
人與人關(guān)系的距離,不是用英里丈量,而是用感情衡量。有人近在咫尺,卻遠(yuǎn)在天邊。與自己真正在乎的人,請(qǐng)保持聯(lián)系。不是圖方便,而是因?yàn)樗麄冎档妙~外的付出。
71. Never neglect the people who are most important to you simply because you think they will always be there. Because one morning you might wake up and realize you lost the moon while counting the stars.
不要僅僅因?yàn)樽约赫J(rèn)為他們會(huì)永遠(yuǎn)在身邊,而忽略自己最重要的人。因?yàn)槟程烨宄啃褋?lái),你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)自己數(shù)了星星,卻失去了月亮。
72. True love isn’t about being inseparable; it’s about two people being true to each other even when they are separated.
真愛(ài)不是難舍難分,而是即使分離,彼此的心真實(shí)可鑒。
73. True friendship and true love do sustain the tests of distance and time.
真正的友情和愛(ài)情能經(jīng)歷時(shí)間和距離的考驗(yàn)。
74. When someone gives you their time, they are giving you a portion of their life that they will never get back. It’s one of the most precious gifts you can receive. Don’t waste it.
當(dāng)一個(gè)人為你花時(shí)間時(shí),他贈(zèng)與你的是自己一去不復(fù)返的時(shí)光。這是你能收到的最珍貴的禮物,請(qǐng)珍惜它吧。
75. Good relationships are not just about the good times you share; they’re also about the obstacles you go through together, and the fact that you still say “I love you” in the end.
幸福的感情不僅僅是一起度過(guò)的美好時(shí)光,而是在一起經(jīng)歷生活的艱辛后,你仍然對(duì)他/她說(shuō)“我愛(ài)你”。